Cover of Such a Fun Age, a Booker prize contender by Kiley Reid that looks at class privilege and attitudes towards racism in the era of woke.

I was too engrossed in Hilary Mantel’s The Mirror and the Light to pay much attention to Such a Fun Age when it was longlisted for the Booker Prize in 2020. When my niece passed on her copy, I read the blurb and thought it sounded interesting but then forgot all about it until recently.

When I finally got around to reading it, I discovered my niece had included a note that read “I felt there was something I was missing.” It’s taken me five years to find out what she meant by that comment and to find that we are in agreement about Reid’s debut novel.

The book started rather well.

Late one night a young woman strolls up and down the aisles of a Philadelphia grocery store. Another customer thinks there’s something not right about the sight . of a black woman in party clothes holding the hand of a small white child.

The store’s security guard is summoned to confront the woman. He doesn’t accuse her directly (he spends more time questioning the child) but his attitude makes it clear — he thinks he’s dealing with a kidnapping. A customer films the resulting altercation which is resolved only when the child’s father arrives and reveals that the woman is a babysitter who is helping out his family in an emergency.

“You know what—it’s cool,” she said. “We can just leave.”

“Now wait a minute.” The guard held out his hand. “I can’t let you leave, because a child is involved.” “But she’s my child right now.” Emira laughed again. “I’m her sitter. I’m technically her nanny…” This was a lie, but Emira wanted to imply that paperwork had been been done concerning her employment, and that it connected her to the child in question.

“Hi, sweetie.” The woman bent and pressed her hands into her knees. “Do you know where your mommy is?”

“Her mom is at home.” Emira tapped her collarbone twice as she said, “You can just talk to me.”

This encounter introduces what will become key themes within the novel — class and race relations.

Emira Tucker has taken the babysitting job just to make ends meet while she figures out what to do with her life. Her friends are already taking first steps in their chosen careers but Emira is stuck in dead end jobs that barely earn her enough to pay the rent.

Her employer is Alix Chamberlain; a wealthy blogger, influencer and the mastermind behind #LetHerSpeak, a platform that promotes female empowerment. With a book to write she just doesn’t have time to devote to a baby and a three-year-old. Enter Emira into the Chamberlain household. All goes swimmingly until that night at the grocery store.

The two women have nothing in common yet Alix decides she really, really wants to be friends with Emira. What Alix wants she normally gets but not this time. Invitations to share a glass of wine don’t lead to the kind of heart to heart or exchange of gossip that Alix desires. After the grocery store debacle, Alix becomes so determined to discover more about Emira’s life that she crosses the line between mild interest to snooping and ultimately, manipulation.

Such a Fun Age is written with considerable brio. The narrative really rattles along via alternating chapters that contrast the daily lives of Emira and Alix. Emira spends a lot of her time clubbing, drinking with her mates and worrying about how she’s going to pay her health insurance. Alix’s friends are too busy being the perfect parents to be much fun. When she’s not surreptitiously reading the text messages on her babysitter’s phone, she’s fretting about her weight and why she still hasn’t had the invite from Hilary Clinton to work on her presidential campaign.

Reid shows differing attitudes towards race, from the outright antagonism of the grocery store security guard to the well intentioned but misguided behaviour of the white people in the novel. The potential was there for a thought-provoking exploration of unconscious racism and wokeism but it never really got fully developed. every time I thought we were getting into the meat of the issue, Reid shot off in a different direction.

It was an enjoyable read, largely because I warmed to Emira. She and the toddler Briar were really the only likeable people in the novel — Alix’s privileged friends and her non-entity of a husband were just insipid. Emira’s friends had far more substance though I found their constant wise-cracking did jar after a while.

Fun to read for sure but desperately needed more depth to make it memorable.

16 responses to “Such a Fun Age by Kiley Reid – wokeism under the spotlight”

  1. I enjoyed this well enough as I was reading but like you I got weary of all the talk about clothes and hair and social media status. And like your niece I also wondered if I had missed something.

    1. The chitchat between the girls on their nights out was wearisome in deed. I also didn’t like the way the author felt she had to give us an entire backstory about everyone

  2. I remember how popular this book was when it first came out several yrs ago. I remember thinking I wanted to read it but then time passed and I never did.

    1. I’m pretty certain that you have more interesting books already on your shelves

  3. The Western Australian library system has it so I have borrowed it on BorrowBox. I don’t generally get on with ‘issues based’ fiction, but we’ll see.

    1. It’s not that heavy on the issues side.

  4. My first reaction would be, “What’s the significance of the title Such a Fun Age? Are we meant to consider the child’s point of view in all this, or is it an ironic comment on contemporary US society at the time?

    1. I wish I knew Chris. I don’t think it’s from the child’s perspective though

    2. I read this when it came out Chris, but I felt that it was ironic. In fact, how you’ve written it in your comment with a questionmark would have been rather apt too.

  5. This sounds as though it’s written with considerable verve. It sounds like one to read, judging both from your review and the comments, if I come across it, but not one to put the effort in to hunt it down.

  6. Not that I know much about contemporary race relations in the US, but the initial premise seems weak to me. I’ve read so many books and watched so many films where black women are carers and nannies to white children, I can’t see why the security guard would take any notice, especially since it appears from what you say that the kid wasn’t resisting being with her.
    Now if it were a white woman with a black child in tow, that would probably be unusual?

  7. When I read this novel, five years ago, I wrote “everyone in it thinks everyone else is either so different they must not have anything in common or so much the same that they don’t need to talk about it. It’s the current political situation writ small and offers a glimpse of how we got to where we are today.” I’ll stand by that. My review: https://necromancyneverpays.wordpress.com/2020/02/17/such-a-fun-age/

  8. Interesting review. This was one of my favourite reads last year – I thought the topic was handled so brilliantly partly because there weren’t obvious baddies and goodies. The audiobook was brilliant.

    1. Interesting you had such a different reaction. I’d find it hard not to put Alix firmly in the baddies camp – her behaviour by the end was reprehensible

  9. I read this at the time and remember really quite enjoying it, but I can’t remember one thing about it, even after reading your excellent review!

    1. That just reinforces what i felt by the end – that it’s not a memorable book because it skirted around the issues

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