Our Souls at Night is a tender tale of two people in later life find companionship through an unusual request

In Our Souls at Night Kent Haruf returns to the small fictional town of Holt, Colorado for a quiet, tender tale of friendship and happiness in later life.

The novel opens in a way that suggests we’re dropping in on a neighbour sharing an anecdote about two other residents of this

“And then there was the day Addie Moore made a call on Louis Waters,” we hear. What follows is an unusual request and the beginning of a relationship that gets tongues wagging around them.

Addie, a widow, asks the widower Louis if he’d consider going over to her house sometimes to sleep with her.

“What,” says Louis, naturally a bit taken about. “How do you mean?” And she says: “I mean we’re both alone. We’ve been together for too long. For years. I’m lonely.I think you might be too, I wonder if you would come and sleep in the night with me. And talk.”

Addie isn’t looking for a physical relationship. She just wants the comfort of companionship, someone with whom she can share the highlights or lowlights of the day.

These people have lived most of their lives in Holt, a small community where everyone knows everyone else, so they’re not strangers. But they’ve never had more than casual encounters until now.

They lay next to each other and listenend to the rain. “So life hasn’t turned out right for either of us, not the way we expected,’ he said.
‘Except it feels good now, at this moment.” “Better than I have every reason to deserve.”

The arrangement they make evolves into a relationship in which they talk, about their pasts, about their now dead partners and about their hopes and dreams. Their lives hadn’t turned out the way they’d hoped — Louis dreamed of being a poet but ended up a schoolteacher; Addie’s plans to become a teacher floundered with a pregnancy at the age of twenty, and she drifted into secretarial work. Their bed-time chats are tinged with disappointments and sorrow but through them they find a new form of contentment.

Of course their neighbours think there’s more going on than either Addie or Louis will admit. Addie’s son (whom she seldom sees) is outraged — Louis is just a chancer, out to swindle his mum out of her money he reckons. Problems ensue.

Our Souls at Night is a perfectly judged study of two mature people who find happiness and a new purpose in life until family pressures get in the way of their companionship. This could so easily have turned into a shallow, over-sweetened sentimental mush of a tale. Instead in Kent Haruf’s hands we get a wonderfully subtle tale of companionship in later life.

It’s told in the kind of unadorned prose that sucks you into thinking this is just a simple tale of two ordinary people in a fairly ordinary place. Yet underneath the novel captures the tension between how older people want to live — and how others think they should.

Who would have thought at this time in our lives that we’d still have something like this. That it turns out we’re not finished with changes and excitements. And not all dried up in body and spirit.

21 responses to “Our Souls at Night by Kent Haruf — second chance at life”

  1. I love this, and all Haruf’s books. He writes with such quiet beauty.

    1. I’m a latecomer to his work

  2. I love this book–I recommend it all over the place. Your review is great. Honestly? Though I think made for t.v., the movie is pretty good, too.

    1. I think we started watching it but didn’t finish for some reason. Shall have to give it another go now

  3. The ending of this book just ripped my heart out back when I read it. Yet all of it was totally credible–both the ending and the whole story before the ending.

    1. I did have a lump in my throat too

  4. I love this story! Did you see the movie adaptation?

    1. No _ i know we started watching but can’t remember why we stopped. Two brilliant actors

  5. One of my favourite writers. He has the ability to paint the universal on a small canvas in such a quiet, understated style.

    1. There’s hardly a word that’s wasted in his writing. Simply beautiful

  6. I do think Haruf is an under-appreciated writer. I read this some yesrs ago, but It’s a book I decline to dispose of – I know I’ll for sure read it again. And I don’t often do that.

    1. I seldom re-read now. I used to keep books that I felt I would read again but after two years found that I hadn’t even thought about them let alone read them. So off they went to a new home to be enjoyed by a different reader. I reckoned I could always get them from the library if I really wanted them

      1. I’m increasingy taking that view.

  7. I found Kent Haruf years ago and was drawn by his sparse yet poetic style into reading all of his work, Our Souls At Night last of all. Really shook me to learn of his passing and that there would be no more. I still think about Our Soul’s At Night fairly frequently. At 77, I’m delighted to read works about mature people by mature writers. There are so many bright young authors writing about bright young people. I found myself getting angry at Addie for caving into her son’s bullying, yet the story is convincing. Highly recommend this and all of Haruf’s work.

    1. There are not many novels written about older people in an honest, sensible way. Mostly people of a certain age seem to be portrayed as doddery or sprightly (both horrible in my view) so it’s refreshing to come across Haruf’s portrayal

  8. Kent Haruf is always worth reading, but this is probably my least favourite of his short backlist.

    1. I don’t have much to compare it with having only read Benediction previously. Good to know that the ones I haven’t read are even stronger,

      1. I highly highly recommend the Plainsong trilogy. (Benediction is the third part of that trilogy)

        1. Ah, so I should really have started at the beginning.

  9. This sounds like one I might like, I’ll see if my library has it.

    1. His ability to capture a moment or an emotion in sparse prose is remarkable

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