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Alice Munro’s Dear Life: Review

Dear LifeReading Alice Munro’s latest (and what she’s said will be her last) collection of short stories, it’s evident why she has  so many devoted fans.

Her tales are concise, subtle narratives located firmly in rural Ontario where she has lived most of her life. It’s an area into which the trappings of twenty-first century life seldom seem to intrude —you won’t find any of the characters in Dear Life for example, spending hours texting their friends or surfing the Internet.  Yet these stories radiate out from the small town settings of Lake Huron communities to themes and issues that are far broader and universal.

None of the people in her stories are showy individuals or great individuals.  They are just ordinary people of the kind you can meet in the coffee shop or the grocery store. When they walk into her narratives however they become transformed into people capable of deep emotion, suffering anguish they might lose their husband’s love, of the trauma of blackmail, of the vacuum created by a sick partner’s slow walk towards death, of the confusion of old age. Munro treats them with warmth and compassion, never judging them but simply showing that she understands.

In Leaving Maverly, one of the most memorable stories in this collection, we meet a community policeman with a sick wife. He devotes himself to her, even moving to the city so she can get better care. As time passes and she slips away from him into a coma, his visits to the hospital become less frequent.  It isn’t that he doesn’t care, it’s just that he gives up waiting for the day when she will open her eyes and see him. The emptiness caused  by her eventual death hits him unexpectedly:

He’d thought that it had happened long before with Isabel, but it hadn’t. Not until now. She had existed and now she did not… And before long, he found himself outside, pretending that he had as ordinary and good a reason as anybody else to put one foot ahead of the other.

That last image of the policeman walking out into the night is a good illustration of the way Munro leaves you feeling that her characters have a life before we meet them, and a life that will continue long after we have read the final sentence. It’s also an example of the unshowy, understated way she writes. She doesn’t go in for narratives stuffed with grand rhetorical flourishes. You won’t find multi layers of imagery or lengthy descriptive passages as a rule so when her images do materialise they are even more effective because they fit the theme so exactly.

One memorable example comes at the end of Pride. The two characters are both social misfits though in very different ways. He is scarred by a hare lip, she by the shame of her banker father’s mismanagement of funds. They forge a friendship while enjoying cosy meals watching BBC comedy series on tv and eating their supper from trays on their laps. A misunderstanding threatens their relationship but then they notice unusual activity around the birdbath in his garden that re-unites them

… how beautiful. Flashing and dancing and never getting in each other’s way so you could not tell how many there were, where each body started or stopped.

While we watched they lifted themselves up one by one and left the water and proceeded to walk across the yard, swiftly but in a straight diagonal line. As if they were proud of themselves but discreet.

We were as glad as we could be.

These are not stories that I could read in rapid succession. At first I felt they were rather underwhelming and the style too measured. But then after a few days had elapsed I found an idea or an image from the one I’d just finished, would come back into my mind and I would want to read it again.

I’m not sure that I would be in a huge rush to read another collection by her but if I come across one of her stories in the magazines where typically they get their first airings (some of those from Dear Life were originally published in Harper’s Magazine and The New Yorker) I know I won’t want to turn the page.

For the Record

Paperback copy. 319 pages
Published in the UK by Vintage Books 2012



What do you need to know about me? 1. I'm from Wales which is one of the countries in the UK and must never be confused with England. 2. My life has always revolved around the written and spoken word. I worked as a journalist for nine years then in international corporate communications 3. My tastes in books are eclectic. I love realism and hate science fiction and science fantasy. 4. I am trying to broaden my reading horizons geographically by reading more books in translation

12 thoughts on “Alice Munro’s Dear Life: Review

  • Belatedly having picked up “New Selected Stories” (2011) and, while recognising immediately Alice Munro’s exceptional skill, I never want to read her again. I would describe her writing as anti-existentialist; immanent; a pathway to despair, where things are and can only be what they are, like stones.

  • I read this last year and it was my introduction to her writing. I love her prose, and that short story you mentioned about the policeman taking care of his wife was one of my favorites – so touching.

  • Have not read this yet but did read Too Much Happiness just before Christmas. The story for which the book is named is quite different and is in fact a novella.. I am sure you would love it.
    Great review by the way.

    • I’ll put it on my ever growing list of books to read – it might be quite some years before I get to it at my rate though

  • I started reading this last year but I put it aside, not because I wasn’t completely uninterested but because the holidays were fast approaching and I couldn’t make time for it. I hope I can read it this year.

    • there’s a benefit to short stories in that you can read them in gaps between other books..

  • I have this book sitting waiting for me, and I am really looking forward to it. Your lovely review has really whetted my appetite.

    • It was an odd experience reading this Ali. The first story in the collection I really didn’t care for and couldn’t understand why she would have started with this one. Then I would read one and think – Hm, ok. it wash;t until a few days later when I found myself thinking about it that I realised I had enjoyed it. Never had that experience before

  • I was given this for Christmas (it was on my wish list) and I can’t wait to read it. I’m so pleased you enjoyed it. I’ve read Munro before and do appreciate her subtle style.

    • I’ve never read anything by her before and at first I couldn’t understand the fuss. the book grew on me though

  • I have Alice Munro’s ‘Dear Life’ on my shelf to read still. I am looking forward to it, some of the stories you described sound wonderful, but I do find it hard to get into short story collections.

    • You know I can’t remember any other short story collection that I have read so I had nothing to compare it with. My preferance is always going to be the full novel but it was an interesting diversion jasmine


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