I neglected my TBR Book Jar last year but this is a new year so it’s a good opportunity to get back into the habit of using it to help guide my decision on what to read next.

For the benefit of anyone new to this blog, the idea of my TBR book jar is to select three titles on the first of each month and committ to reading one of those titles within two months.

In its original incarnation, I used a real jar, writing out a slip of paper for each book that I owned but had not yet read. It was a laborious task and I often forgot to add any newly purchased books. Plus, it was duplicating effort since I also have a spreadsheet to records all the books I own, when I bought/acquired them and when I read them. So I’m just going to use this as an “electronic book jar” and pick three line numbers (the titles are sorted alphabetically) using a random number generator.

So here are the three titles that came from the random generator this month. .

Heartburn by Nora Ephron

Nora Ephron’s first novel is, according to Goodreads, “a sidesplitting novel about the breakup of the perfect marriage.” The central character, an author of cookbooks, discovers late into her pregnancy that her husband is in love with another woman. In between trying to win him back and wishing him dead, she offers some of her favourite recipes.

Human Acts by Han Kang

South Korean author Han Kang gained international recognition with The Vegetarian, her first novel to be translated into English. I bought her second novel, Human Acts, exactly a year ago, hoping it would be just as remarkable as The Vegetarian. The blurb on Goodreads tells me that it begins during a democratization uprising in South Korea in 1980. In the novel, a young boy is killed during a student demonstration. The story of this episode is told from the perspective of victims and those they leave behind.

Olive Again by Elizabeth Strout

This novel picks up where Olive Kitteridge ended, tracing the next decade of Olive’s life through a second marriage and an evolving relationship with her son. In her first outing, Olive was portrayed as an opinionated, blunt and judgemental woman who alienated just about everyone who encountered her in the town of Crosby, Maine. She’s a fascinating, though not very likeable, character. I’m wondering if Olive Again sees her mellow at all in her old age.

Decision Time

I’m going to give the Nora Ephron a miss since comedy isn’t really a genre I enjoy. I bought Heartburn simply because it was at a bargain price in a second hand bookshop and I’d heard of Ephron, but never read her. Now I’m thinking I’ll just let this one go to a new home unread. I might sample the first few pages before I make that decision.

I’m certain I’ll enjoy Olive Again since I’ve enjoyed everything else I’ve read by Strout. It’s tempting to revisit an old friend but I think I’m going to go with Human Acts. It sounds like a novel I can get really engrossed in and it’s about a period in history I know nothing about.

Let me know if you agree/disagree with my choice. If you’ve read the Ephron tell me whether you thought it worth reading.

34 responses to “TBR Book Jar Lucky Dip — January 2025”

  1. […] two thirds of the way through Human Acts by Han Kang, the book I selected as a result of my TBR Book Jar lucky dip for January. The narrative is told from the perspectives of different people who were caught up in a student-led […]

  2. I enjoyed your process of switching from the jar to a randomiser: it’s interesting how our bookish habits shift, and I am always looking for different ways to approach my shelves and my TBR a little differently too. Curious to see whether you enjoy the Kang: she’s on my list to explore further (The Vegetarian being my only experience of her work so far.) Happy New Year!

    1. Hi Marcie, yes my approach to my TBR has changed over the years. I didn’t really have one until I started blogging and then within a year or so it had grown to be in the hundreds.

  3. I’m a bit late to the party but I approve your thinking. I would certainly give Heartburn a miss, and indeed, would just move it on. I think Ephron does have some wit about her, but if like me you have more books on you TBR than you’ll ever read then you have to make some choices. I would be torn between the other two, but I think your reasoning for not going with Strout but trying someone new makes perfect sense to me.

    1. Some of the books I have on the TBR have been there for more than 10 years so I have to ask myself whether I am realistically ever going to read them

  4. I love the idea of the TBR jar and might try that for myself! The only one I’ve read is the Ephron and agree that you should give it a try as it isn’t really a ‘comedy’, I found it quite a tough read, I had a look at my review and I called it ‘brash’ and ‘brittle’!

    1. Interesting that you wouldn’t class it as a comedy. That encourages me to sample it

  5. I’d like to read that Ephron, myself. I never read Olive, Again, but I do like her books. I don’t know the other one, so going with the wild card is a good idea.

    1. Thanks Davida. The Ephron is getting a lot of support here

  6. I’ve never read Ephron either, but know she has a relatively stable reputation in the rom-com arena, especially in the film space. I would have read a couple of chapters, if nothing else to prove me right to ditch it.

    1. That’s my plan too Nordie having seen so many people comment here about how much they enjoyed it

  7. I think the original Olive book is the best. I read Olive again but don’t remember it that much. Didn’t think it was nearly as good as the original. The Han sounds much more serious but those kinds of books often stay with you. I’ve always heard Nora is very good but have never read her.

    1. It would be hard to beet the first “Olive” novel.

  8. Good luck with Human Acts – look forward to your thoughts!

    1. It might be a while before you see them – you know how slow I am with my reviews!

  9. Here’s another vote for not giving up the Ephron. I found the humour laugh out loud funny in places with lots of witty one-liners, but there’s a bittersweet edge to the story. As an added bonus, if you like food and/or cookery, there’s plenty to whet your appetite (see what I did there 😆) My edition actually came with recipes.

    1. The bittersweet aspect is encouraging. I shall follow your advice and give it a go, just making sure not to read it when I’m hungry….

  10. I’m so glad you’e gone for Human Acts. I read it when it first came out, when we had just visited South Korea, and probably because of this, found it a really powerful evocation of a troubled time in its recent history. It remains my favourite Han Kang.

  11. I thought the Ephron was fun but slight. It’s a very quick read.

    1. Well I’ve been advised by Kate W to sample her rather than just dismiss without at least giving her the benefit of the doubt.

      1. Good idea. I did enjoy it.

  12. I loved the Ephron and I can’t remember quite why now, but she’s a very funny writer. Oh, I read it in September 1997, having been loaned it (by whom, I wonder!). So pre-blog. But it’s notable I still remember how amusing it was.

    1. Are you usually a fan of amusing novels? It’s a challenge for me to find a novel that hits just the right comic note.

      1. Good question! I don’t like comedy in general if it’s too chaotic, but I do appreciate wit (Jeeves and Wooster, for example, though there is of course slapstick there, too). And I don’t like nasty poking-fun kind of humour. So I’d think it’s witty but it was a LONG time ago I read it and I might be misremembering!

  13. I think you might enjoy the olive one as well, she does grow on you

    1. Thanks Beth. I found her a fascinating character. I’ve read Tell Me Everything where she has a small role and she is still very opinionated though does seem to have gained some empathy

  14. I’ve read the Strout and the Kang – both are great but very different, the Kang quite full-on. But absorbing, yes!

    1. Just like The Vegetarian then. Thanks Elle for sharing your insight

  15. I loved the Ephron when I read it long ago (well before the movie). If you need a laugh, you’ll love it.

    1. Comedy can be quite challenging for me – it’s so hard to hit the right note

      1. Yes, me too. What passes for contemporary comedy is pitiful to those of us who grew up on BBC comedy and its witty ABC spinoffs.

        1. BBC comedy today is dire ….I think they’re so cautious about the content for fear of offending anyone

  16. Don’t give the Ephron away without sampling a bit – she really is a marvelous writer and her humour is of the dry variety.

    1. OK boss! Will do.

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