Cover of Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout, a magnificent portrait of a blunt, rude woman who alienates everyone.

This novel features one of the most obnoxious women I’ve encountered in contemporary fiction. Olive Kitteridge is a blunt, rude, argumentative and insensitive retired maths teacher in a small coastal town of Crosby, Maine. She’s the kind of person you’d want to cross the street to avoid if you saw her out and about. afraid that you’d be on the receiving end of her barbed comments.

This woman doesn’t have a sensitivity filter at all. She just comes right out with whatever she thinks, oblivious to the effect her words have on those around her. Towards her neighbours she can be brutally frank and unkind but she also shows little warmth towards her own family members.

Right from the start we discover that Olive Kitteridge is quick to judge other people based on next to no evidence. When her placid, kindly husband Henry comes home one day with news that he’s hired a sweet young girl to assist him in the pharmacy, Olive’s response is typically dismissive:

‘Mousy,’ his wife said, when he hired the new girl. ‘Looks just like a mouse.’
Denise Thibodeau had round cheeks, and small eyes that peeped through her brown-framed glasses. ‘But a nice mouse,’ Henry said. ‘A cute one.’
No one’s cute who can’t stand up straight,’ Olive said.

That exchange sums up Olive’s negative attitude to just about everyone she encounters. Her husband has tolerated her for years but she’s alienated her child Christopher with her dictatorial attitude.

In her eyes the inhabitants of the small coastal town of Crosby, Maine are all “stupid” (one of her favourite words). Olive however can do no wrong. Henry once said to her, “I don’t believe you’ve ever once apologised. For anything.” and in fact we never do see Olive admit to being wrong. Not even when she has an almighty bust up while visiting Christopher and his wife in New York. Though she knows deep down that over-reacted, instead of apologising she just stomps off to the airport in a fury.

In the course of these linked short stories we discover a lot about Olive through the lenses of neighbours, friends, former pupils and her family, And the more we come to know about her, the more apparent it becomes that Olive’s abrasive external persona hides a sensitive personality. She’s deeply hurt when she hears negative comments about her appearance and affronted that anyone should think she is getting old. I wonder whether it’s her pride that prevents her showing how much she’s wounded or is it fear that she will soon be viewed as an irrelevance?

That row with Christopher does mark a watershed in Olive’s attitude to life. It helps her to reach a deeper understanding of what’s important and to see the world around her in a more positive light.

And then as the little plane climbed higher and Olive saw spread out below them fields of bright and tender green in this morning sun, farther out the coastline, the ocean shiny and almost flat, tiny white wakes behind a few lobster boats–then Olive felt something she had not expected to feel again: a sudden surging greediness for life. She leaned forward, peering out the window: sweet pale clouds, the sky as blue as your hat, the new green of the fields, the broad expanse of water–seen from up here it all appeared wondrous, amazing. She remembered what hope was, and this was it. That inner churning that moves you forward, plows you through life the way the boats below plowed the shiny water, the way the plane was plowing forward to a place new, and where she was needed.


The Olive we see by the end of the book is a calmer, more settled individual who seems to be embarking on a new phase in her life. The question of course is whether this change in her personality is sustained — readers will have to wait until a later book, Olive Again, to get the answer. Part of me is hoping that the irascible Olive hasn’t completely disappeared because she such a magnificent creation.


25 responses to “Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout — rude, obnoxious yet wonderful”

  1. I first discovered Elizabeth Strout’s books during the 2020 lockdown. Olive Kitteridge is a wonderful literary creation – comedy, tragedy and the ordinary but important things of life.

    1. I’ve become hooked on her novels. Just finished Anything is Possible – even better than My Name is Lucy Barton. Strout has a brilliant ear for dialogue

  2. It’s been years since I saw the Olive Kitteridge TV series and then found and read the book. I remember loving it, despite the issues you rightly raise.

  3. Excellent review. I have a dear friend who lives for this author’s books. I need to try this one again. It’s hard to beat Maud Barrington in The Snow-Woman by Stella Gibbons, but I think you are correct!

  4. I still have to read this book, though it’s been on my TBR for a long time. I’m going to dare you, though, to read Karen Jennings’ Crooked seeds. I think her Deidre might beat Olive Kittredge for an obnoxious protagonist. (Jennings, if you don’t know her, is a white South African writer. Her first two books were published by a small UK publisher, but this last one was published here by one of our own independent publishers (I presume by agreement with some English or South African or other publisher.)

  5. I love Olive and wish there were even more books about her. She speaks out loud what many of us think in various situations.

  6. I read this one some years ago and I could not understand what all the fuss was about. I couldn’t stand Olive and hated being in her company. I have had experience of a few toxic women like that and I don’t think it matters what made them into a monster, there’s no excuse.
    Anyway, she seems to have given joy to so many readers, so maybe I’m on my own!

  7. Sounds like an absolutely mesmerising portrait of a character the reader might want to invest in despite their dreadful behaviours.

  8. I’m one of the few people who hasn’t been seduced by Elizabeth Strout. Perhaps I’ll give Olive a whirl.

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    Liliane Ruyters

    Olive remains Olive in all later books. I love the way Strout portrays her and other characters like Lucy Barton. I am an absolute fan.

  10. Your review echoes my own thoughts on this novel. At first I thought Olive was a thoroughly unpleasant person but as the story progresses the reader becomes aware that she has developed a coat of armour to deal with life. It’s sad really as she misses out on so much happiness because of this. The author does well to encourage interest and involvement with a character who is so very hard to like, I think.

    1. Absolutely. It takes great skill to create a character that evokes such a strong reaction. She’s her own worst enemy in many ways and I wanted her so badly to stop making all those really nasty remarks when she’s in New York.

  11. I’m so glad you enjoyed this, Karen. Olive is such a brilliantly realised character. I usually avoid adaptations but on the recomendation of a fellow fan I watched HBO’s series in which Olive is played by Frances McDormand who’s perfect for the part.

    1. Oh yes she would be such a great choice. Sadly I don’t think we can get HBO. I wonder if its out on DVD though

  12. I remember reading this a few years ago, it’s the only one in the series that I have tried. Olive is a hard woman to like.

    1. She is definitely hard to like initially but I really warmed to her as the book went on, especially when she was in New York and feeling so much out of place

  13. Lovely review thank you! Sounds like Olive is willing for a inner change –

    1. Im still not sure that the ending was a good choice but we’ll see how it pans out in the next book

  14. Such people are interesting only in pages of a book.

    1. Oh yes, I don’t think I could have put up with her in real life 🙂

  15. I loved it and olive was hard to love but by the end you understand her

    1. Have you read the later books which feature her Beth?

      1. I haven’t yet –

  16. A masterful characterization!

    1. It absolutely is Carol. Can’t wait to start on Olive Again

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